tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3708084336757479655.post1903310905458657147..comments2024-01-02T21:33:09.537+08:00Comments on an attempt to remain sane in this insane world...: No Easy Featfirstwivesclubhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13568747619632376045noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3708084336757479655.post-40816448564687555692010-04-10T15:33:28.717+08:002010-04-10T15:33:28.717+08:00Hi kaye,
Try to ask God to take away the love ...Hi kaye,<br /><br /> Try to ask God to take away the love you have for R. Maybe it can help. But i really salute you! You're a strong girl.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3708084336757479655.post-13025326386699396862010-02-23T07:49:34.139+08:002010-02-23T07:49:34.139+08:00Haay, K.
That's love..you know it is when you ...Haay, K.<br />That's love..you know it is when you have to feel some pain before letting go completely.<br /><br />The antidote?<br />When you decide for yourself that you don't want the pain anymore. If the pain arises from feelings of love, then by directing your feelings on other people like your kids, your self, your family, your work, your close friends, your God, then maybe, just maybe, any residual love left for the man who does not seem to be on the same page with you will go away. <br /><br />And the only way out is to really quit cold turkey. Maybe you need to remind yourself what got you and your kids in this situation in the first place. That will ground you every time he comes around knocking on your heart for the nth time.<br /><br />Or maybe you just need a new nanny so you won't have to lower your "standards" with him as a "manny" (read: male nanny hahahaha).<br /><br />C.Chrisnoreply@blogger.com