Ten years ago, I would have taken snide comments to heart, worried about it, and let it eat me up 'til who-knows-how-long. But as I've pointed out, I am older now, wiser, and a little more attuned to the fact that life is short, and the many other maxims that really try to tell us that it doesn't matter what others say about you. What's important is what you know and believe to be true about yourself.
Over fourteen years ago, when I worked for Makro, I realized this very same thing. I worked side-by-side nursing, engineering, and education graduates who couldn't find jobs that suited their degrees. Instead, some had to work for my canvassing team - recruiting members for the then-new (and alive) business and wholesale giant. Once, on field work along Banawe Avenue, my co-canvassers and I were literally kicked out of a car shop, manned, ironically, by a batch mate from Ateneo. Yes folks, he kicked me out - AB Economics degree and all. My co-canvassers were pissed. I, however, took it with a grain of salt. This man knew little, if not none, about who we were, so he chose to look down on us. But did it matter what he knew? Did it matter that he called us "tsao-hwans" (a derogatory remark meaning dirty, stinky people in Chinese slang), when we knew we weren't? I told my canvassing team to keep their chins up. They were college graduates, and this man didn't know that.
So really, does it matter if I look bigger, older (and perhaps, uglier) now? LOL! I'd like to believe otherwise. I actually think life is awesome, and I actually feel young and beautiful. Do I listen to what other people say about me? Sure. Do I let their words bring me down? No.
I may be big and old to some. But to me, THIS is what I know to be true: I am BIG, B-OLD and BEAUTIFUL!
~ LIFE IS AWESOME! ~
So remember that BIG N' TASTY event I attended a few weeks back? Well McDonald's had us, bloggers, fulfill specific tasks to show how BIG can be beautiful.
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| My not-so-little photographer A wanted to show my readers the difference in size of the plush toys we found at home. |
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| Yes, this Barney stuffed toy is almost as big as I am! |
TASK 2: GIVE THE BIGGEST CARD TO A FRIEND
My BFF J's little boy is turning one! J has been so stressed lately - with work, preps and everything else. So last Friday, after work, I surprised her with an invitation to go de-stressing at McDonald's for a dose of the NEW! Big N' Tasty burger! For this task, I commissioned the help of my talented assistant G to assist me in making this humongous card, and J's husband RF to take photos. J obviously got the picture - nothing like a BIG card to get a BIG message across - J, KEEP CALM AND THINK BIG... N' TASTY! Tara!
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| Stressed and tired, my BFF J needed a break! So I took the opportunity to invite her out for a Big N' Tasty. |
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| I wanted a BIG card to get my BIG message across. This BIG N' TASTY treat is on me! |
J has been a great, great friend to me. We've been office mates for over 10 years. She has been by my side through thick and thin, and has always held my hand through the bad times. She always sees the good in the bad (yes, even in worst situations) and for that I will always be grateful. Among all my friends, J has the BIGGEST heart.
We set a date for lunch the next day as she still had errands to run and deadlines to meet that evening. Task 2, DONE!
TASK 3: POSE BESIDE THE BIGGEST WALL MURAL OR GRAFFITI
This, I think, was the hardest task for me, as it took a lot of effort. I was told that it had to be a "drawn" mural, so I had to do some research on this. I initially wanted to pose by the mural on EDSA, Cubao, but I didn't think getting caught by the MMDA would be worth the trouble. I still tried, somehow, and failed. LOL!
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| Effort much? LOL! Effort FAIL! Argh! |
On May 25, 2012, about 700 volunteers from all walks of life (including street kids!), led by lead mural artist, Amado Saño, came together to paint the wall around NAPWC. Measuring approximately 1.075 kilometers long, the wall showcases a design that highlights marine biodiversity in the Philippines. This finished mural is now known as the "Biodiversity Wall of Nature".
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| My kids and I went on a field trip and trekked around Ninoy Aquino Parks and Wildlife Center to capture the new and beautiful wildlife mural on their perimeter wall. Said to be the biggest and longest wildlife mural in the country, the mural, dubbed "Biodiversity Wall of Nature" measures 1.075 Kilometers long, and was painted by over 700 volunteers! |
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| Posing with my little boy, RL, by the "Biodiversity Wall of Nature." |
TASK 4: EAT A BIG N' TASTY WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL
Thought bubble: How I wish I had someone special in my life to share a BIG N' TASTY with... *sad* LOL!
When I was contemplating on how I wanted to do this task, I knew my someone special had to be someone dear to me. I would have picked my kids for this, but both A and RL are more Chicken McDo lovers. So remember my BFF J? Well I was supposed to take her out for Saturday lunch at McDonald's. However, because it was the day before her little boy's first birthday party, she had to make last-minute trips to party suppliers, and had wanted to raincheck on our date. I knew firsthand how stressful preparing for a party could be, so I agreed to reschedule. That evening, however, while her whole family stressed over last-minute details, I decided to drive-thru the nearest McDonald's store and brought them a BIG N' TASTY midnight snack!
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| Craving for a BIG N' TASTY is not a problem as McDonald's has 24-hour stores around the metro. You can either Drive-thru, call 8-MCDO or log on to McDelivery Online for delivery (Flat Rate of P40) - Yes, satisfy that nagging craving, even during the wee hours of the morning! |
I wasn't so sure I could pull off a surprise, so I coordinated with J's husband RF to make sure J was home and ready for some grub.
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| J wasn't hard to please since I already knew she also loves the NEW! BIG N' TASTY burger from McDonald's. But she didn't think I'd make good on my promise of having the burgers on Saturday. Needless to say, it was a BIG and welcome surprise for the tired mom. Her hubby RF took these pictures as I came in the door. |
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| I chose my bff J for Task 4, and had a BIG N' TASTY burger with her. |
Yes, I am BIG, BOLD and BEAUTIFUL! I am blessed to have friends and family (with BIG hearts!) to celebrate this awesome, awesome life with me. Life is overwhelmingly great, as it is beautiful. I won't allow others to tell me otherwise.
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