Friends have emailed me links to websites containing exclusives and what-nots... you know, to keep myself updated. But reading just the first exclusive brought me back to bitter feelings hidden way, way underneath my mask. So thank you, I shall stay away. My mom says I should not forget that I am on vacay. Yes, this trip was planned 6 months ago! Imagine that! Isn't God the best director of life? Who would've known?
God has sustained me. And our time out from everything remains good. Yes, His grace is sufficient.
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Last night, as we said a special prayer for R, A ended up crying because she says she misses her dad. :( How can I protect my daughter from things beyond my control? Sigh. You know how people always remind men to respect women because they have mothers, sisters and someday, daughters? I cannot even begin to understand how one CHOOSES to destroy his or her child's life. Who wishes a legacy of pain, separation, battery, abuse, divorce, etc on his or her own child? The world is crazy. I will never, never understand.
Beloved,never avenge yourselves,
ReplyDeletebut leave it to the wrath of God;
for it is written,"Vengeance is Mine,
I will repay,says the Lord. I watched the news about C and i thought " YOU DESERVED THAT". I am with you, i once was like you" Niloko". But I prayed and handed it to God. I will include you and the kids in my prayer. The best thing to do is not to be involved with the exclusives. Protect the kids from publicity. God Bless you Mrs.
I got the link to your blog via PEP's commentaries. I read Chavit's expose on Che and The Cheating Hubby..kaya please huwag kang mag duda sa akin - hindi ako isa sa kanila! hehehe.
ReplyDeletePero katulad mo, niloko din ako ng aking magiting na asawa. Hiwalay na kami at sila na ngayon ang nagsasama. May kasabihan na "no amount of success compensates for a broken home" to that effect (na amnesia na ako, ano nga ba iyong quote na iyon?)pero maniwala ka, separation gave me peace na hindi ko kayang ipagpalit sa aking naging buhay- may asawa. I am not saying you travel my road, all I am saying is kung saka-sakali...kakayanin mo rin. God will never abandon you. When we teach our children respect, sometimes we need to SHOW them, not just say the word. Kung si philandering hubby ay hindi na talaga magbabago, at paulit-ulit na lang...maawa ka naman sa sarili mo at sa mga anak mo.
Like children of long ago (noong wala pa Child Abuse Law..LOL)men need a good spanking para magtino.
I pray for your strength of spirit. May God bless you and your kids.
Saludo ako sa patience mo...magaling ka ring magsulat. Kaya babalik-balikan ko itong blog mo ha dahil marami akong natutunan sa 'yo. Be strong where it hurts most, magiging napakalaki mong kawalan sa kanya kesa siya sa iyo. God bless you!
Like most of those who left comments in your previous post, I accidentally stumbled upon your blog. I am also a wife and mother and I truly admire your courage and strength amidst the trials you are going through. I truly wish you peace and may you find the happiness you deserve. Hopefully someday, your husband realizes how much time he has wasted being with other women, when he should be with the mother of his children...before its too late. God bless you , Kaye.
ReplyDeleteI don't know you but heard about your blog from Philippine online news and fora and decided to peep in. Having now gone through most of your posts and knowing a little bit of what's been going on recently (who hasn't?), I just wanted to tell you that you and your kids are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you and they will get past this controversy emotionally and psychologically intact, and if I may be bold enough to say so, that you will find the strength to finally rid yourself of the excess baggage that has been pulling your family down for years and start anew. Take care of yourself.
ReplyDeletebilib ako syo at salud:)palagi mong tatandaan GOD LOVES YOU
ReplyDeleteyou are a mighty woman of GOD.i speak life over your situation right.no weapon formed against you nor your family shall prosper because Gods plan for you is not to harm you but to prosper you and give you hope.hang on to Jesus, remember your God is bigger than any situation ur facing right now.all is well and just remember ISAIAH 54..dont be afraid for God, your maker is your husband.
ReplyDeleteYour life must go on. I just pity of the children.
ReplyDeleteWhat an unfair thing. The children suffer what the adults have done.
Whatever you do, please consider the welfare of the children.
Pray always!
Your life must go on. I just pity of the children.
ReplyDeleteWhat an unfair thing. The children suffer what the adults have done.
Whatever you do, please consider the welfare of the children.
Pray always!
hi! was referred to this site from a tweeter friend and googled it just to make sure. DON'T WORRY I'M NOT ONE OF THEM (your hubby's gfs). just knew your hubby's name through the tv news bout chavit's expose on his partner che... just remain strong for your kids and continue your good relationship with God. ang buhay ay parang gulong. this bad event in your family life will soon pass. be strong. ito yung mga times na chances are not given. even if you have kids. with God's help, you can raise your children by yourself. they don't need a father like him. just an opinion. God bless!
ReplyDeleteHi! I just want you to know that I was inspired by your testimony. Your husband is so blessed having a wife like you despite being an a#$.
ReplyDeleteYou really are a true christian.
FYI I am a he. I'm not one of your stalkers.
hi! just want to let you know that i admire your courage..courage not only to keep going amidst adversity but most importantly (for me, at least) for your courage to put your children's welfare on top of your list despite the "broken family" stigma.. my sister is in a similar situation and inspite of the psychological effects on her daughter, she chooses to stay with her husband because she refuses to be called a failure and would do anything just so people would not say that her marriage failed.. i do admire you a lot and your kids are very blessed to have you as their mom..stay strong and positive and Godbless you and your kids!
ReplyDeleteim enjoying your blog, dont know why. must be because Im learning something from this blog. I wish you well
ReplyDeleteI searched for your blog when I heard about it because I feel for you. I've been there before and endured it for years before I finally decided to leave. I admire your patience and perseverance.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you. You're doing great so far, so stay strong, if only for your kids. This too shall pass for God is with you.
If you need someone new to talk to (or maybe rant) or for whatever else, please don't hesitate to contact me. Same goes for the other ladies here. Take care and God bless!
amidst this severe trial of yours i pray that you will hold-on still to God's promise.. you are right, we may never understand why but it's enough to know that he knows the plans he has for us, he doesn't only know, but he cares and he loves you so!
ReplyDeleteLike the others I searched for your blog after hearing about it in the news. I just wanted to say you are truly admirable! Will all the grace, poise and dignity you have shown, your children are definitely blessed with a mother they can thank God for. I can't say the same for C though. Her children should have been her prioriy as yours were. Your ability to leave things in the hands of God and not be hateful is one that we all want when faced with marriage problems. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeletesobrang na touch ako sa blog mo,,magulo din relationship ko ngayon eh, kaya nakaka relate ako. nakapag asawa din ako ng babaero,, hay,, everyday tortured ako.ang hirap mag move on,,kasi sobrang mahal ko sya. shocking talaga scandal about chavit, kaloka.
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